Thursday 11 June 2015

Alis Volat Propriis

Alis volat propriis. A beautiful syllable came from Greek, meaning she flies with her own wings. A strong word, describe a strong, beautiful, smart, independent woman...or girl. 

The more I live every single day, the more I understand things..or so I thought. 

I know now that you don't have to do things same with other people, you can be different. You can do whatever you want with the way you want, or be whoever you want, everything depends on you. 

Because that person who you follow won't be as inspiring for you forever. That person won't be the same forever, he will just gradually change and sometimes, that changes make the differences you have with him more distinct. That shows you how you're actually different with anyone. That you have your own identity as human, you have your own perspective on seeing the world and facing problems, and so you have your own way to overcome those problems. That ways might not be the same with anyone else you know, simply because you are different with them. Because you are you.

You don't have to do thing with someone, you can do with without anyone, alone.

Because that person who you usually do things with won't be with you forever. He has his own life, he is faced with his own insecurities and problems, he has his own priority and it might not be you. Sometimes, that person will just gone like ash the time you need him the most. And all that's left is you. You and your problems. So what you can do except facing it alone, with all power you have? 

Remember, you don't need anybody to face your own problem. Because you are the one who knows that problem almost too well, you're also the only way to solve that problem based on your own power and your very own ways. You're alone does not mean you're weak, you're even stronger than anyone else. Simply because you can use your very own power to solve your problem. You don't need to crawl into anyone's shoulder, yes sometimes you want to do that for the sake of warming your heart, but them again you face your problem alone. At the end of the day, that person who provides you his shoulder or hid hands don't have authority to make you do anything. You have control of yourself, you have power, and you solve your problems by yourself.

 So spread your wings..and fly. As high as you can, until you feel free to be yourself. Until you feel content and happy :)


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